Why More Couples Are Choosing a First Look Before the Ceremony

Is a First Look Right for You? Here's Why It Might Be.

One of the most personal decisions you’ll make while planning your wedding is whether or not to share a first look. It’s a topic many couples go back and forth on—and for good reason. While it’s not for everyone, a first look can be a meaningful way to ease into the day, calm your nerves, and share a private, emotional moment before everything officially begins.

If you’re wondering whether a first look is right for you, here are a few reasons it might be worth considering.

A Quiet Moment for Just the Two of You

Your wedding day is full of movement, celebration, and people—but very little alone time. Between getting ready, portraits, the ceremony, and the reception, many couples are surprised by how little time they actually spend together during the day.

A first look gives you a moment of calm. Just the two of you—no distractions, no audience. You get to pause, breathe, and really take in the moment before the whirlwind begins.

And let’s be honest: standing in front of a crowd can sometimes make it hard to fully express how you're feeling. A first look gives space for real emotion—whether that’s tears, laughter, or just a long hug that says everything.

It Adds Meaning—and Amazing Footage

Choosing a location that’s personal or simply beautiful near your venue can add even more to the experience. Whether it’s a scenic overlook, a quiet garden, or just a tucked-away corner of your venue, that setting becomes part of your story.

From a filmmaker’s perspective, these moments are gold. Without the pressure of a crowd, we can capture raw, emotional reactions, and the audio from this moment (especially if you're reading letters or private vows) often becomes a highlight of your wedding film.

More Time, Less Stress

A first look can also help your timeline flow more smoothly. It often allows us to get most of your portraits done earlier in the day—meaning you’ll have more time to enjoy the celebration later, without rushing to fit in photos during cocktail hour.

And if you’re feeling anxious before the ceremony, a first look can ground you. Seeing your partner—even for a few minutes—can be the emotional reset you need to step into the rest of the day with calm and excitement.

The Takeaway

A first look isn’t about breaking tradition—it’s about creating space for connection on a day that will move quickly. It’s a chance to slow down, soak in the moment, and remember why you’re here in the first place: to marry your person.

If that sounds like the kind of energy you want woven into your wedding day, a first look might just be the perfect fit.